Thursday, 1 December 2011

Why Focusing? A Brief Introduction

This brief introduction is what we offer people thinking of attending a course, or taking Focusing lessons or coaching. A pdf download is available on my website (

Here, we give a brief overview of Focusing, then go on to describe some of its applications, who learns it, and why.

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‘Experience is a myriad richness. We think more than we can say. We feel more than we can think. We live more than we can feel. And there is much more still.’*

About Focusing
Focusing is a gentle, yet transformative approach to listening to ourselves and others. Asking the question, ‘What wants my attention right now?’ we allow a space to open within us. Into this space, our deeper impulses come more fully into our awareness and begin to find a voice. As we learn focusing, we discover how to respond to this space creatively, and how to enable fresh directions to open up with the issues and people that concern us, and in our lives in general.

By simply sitting and listening within, without judgement (supported by a focusing teacher or partner), focusing gives us a way of understanding the meaning and implicit wisdom held by our bodies, combined with spontaneous images, metaphors and dreams. We do this by tuning into our felt-sense of a situation – taking in the whole of it, and feeling its effect on our whole being.

Finding our Felt-sense
The felt-sense is like an inner compass. it gives us a tangible, felt-experience of what we need in order to move forward in any particular moment or situation. It is freshly experienced and unique to us and our situation. 

The felt-sense is a kind of natural knowledge that, if we can give it space to be heard, will give us the inner resources to deal with whatever is present, and carry us towards our cherished goals. It is as if we hold a deeper knowing about what we need in order to move forward and grow, and by creating the right conditions for that wisdom to be heard, we also discover the means to achieve this. By cultivating this natural ability, we are able to align ourselves more fully to what we want to do, and how we want to be.

‘When you give your awareness to something, it is carried forward. That is why it is so powerful to attend inside.’*

What are the benefits of Focusing?
Healing past rifts, pain and depression
Moving beyond blocks 
Making clearer choices 
Fostering self-respect and innerconfidence 
Better relationships with others 
Increasing health and happiness 
Improving sleep 
• Benefitting from dreams

‘[T]he process of ... changing feels good. ... The change process we have discovered is natural to the body, and it feels that way in the body... The experience of something emerging from there feels like a relief and a coming alive.’ *

More about the benefits of Focusing

Healing past rifts, pain and depression
our body-and-being has an implicit knowing of what is right for us (although we often experience instead a feeling of what is wrong with us). in focusing, the felt-sense gives us a safe and profound way to be present with our painful feelings, and enables us to discover what it is they are wanting to contribute to our lives.

Moving beyond blocks
our mind can move across time from past, present to future. But change happens here and now. so when your life is somehow blocked, the first thing to do is to come fully and naturally into the here and now. this is the only place where change is possible. focusing gives us a way to be fully and naturally present with what is alive in us. as we do this, we can also discover what holds us back. We then find ourselves able to cater to the different sides of ourselves in a way that leaves us free to act as a whole, complete person.

Making clearer choices
inner conflict (ranging from how we do a small task to major life-decisions) is uncomfortable and, at worst, destructive. focusing opens up ways for us to hear the wisdom of each part of ourselves, without getting bogged down in confusion, anxiety or fear. as we learn to trust and identify our ‘inner compass’, we can move forward with clarity and confidence.

Fostering self-respect and inner confidence
as we learn to hear the wisdom within our thoughts and feelings, we gain confidence in our own unique path. We learn to greet whatever is within us with an attitude of radical acceptance – with interest and curiosity about what is there, without ‘falling in’ to old, familiar or difficult states.

Better relationships with others
as our attitude to our inner world changes, so does our attitude to what is around us. We begin to greet other people with the same interest and acceptance – recognising the impulses that drive them, and responding with the same natural compassion that we are able to give to ourselves in the focusing space.

Increasing health and happiness
as our innate happiness begins to be felt more tangibly in our lives, we naturally want to orientate our lifestyles in a more healthy and compatible manner. the sense of freshness and aliveness that comes from experiencing the shifts in focusing also pervades our physical being. there is much anecdotal evidence, not just of radical shifts towards better health, but of healing major sickness.

Improving sleep and understanding dreams
We also teach applications of focusing for finding better quality sleep, and ways of dealing with insomnia (see: in addition, by finding our felt-sense of a dream, we can explore and open up the language and symbolism of dreams, so that the beneficial message of a dream is understood and felt in our body and being.

Who learns Focusing?
While used by many counsellors and therapists, focusing is also learned and practised by non-professionals worldwide. it provides a safe and confidential environment to explore our inner worlds, and to experience the felt-shifts within us. focusing is supported by a long series of operational research studies conducted first at the University of Chicago and now internationally (see

Learning Outcomes:
• How to locate, find and create space for a felt-sense 
• Exquisite listening that allows the felt-sense to move and shift 
• ‘Clearing a space’ to cope with over-loaded and busy life-styles 
• Subtle approaches which bring semi-conscious and unconscious impulses into awareness 
• Freeing up core beliefs that cause stuckness and block creativity 
• Ways to tune into our ‘inner compass’ within a hectic working day 
• Applications of Focusing to sleep and our dream life 
• Focusing partnership work, to sustain future development and learning

Our Courses and Coaching – Our Approaches
Our approach combines the insights of focusing with Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and Mindfulness-based Stress Reduction. Focusing and NVC are rooted in the humanistic psychology of Carl Rogers (1902–1987). Focusing ( was developed in the 1960s and 70s by Eugene T. Gendlin Ph.d, still a leading figure in philosophy, psychology and psychotherapy.This process gives us access to our more instinctive and creative impulses, and allows us to tap into wider perspectives, gut-responses, intuitions and informed hunches – innate wisdom that we naturally hold about the situations we find ourselves within. Nonviolent Communication ( has developed world-wide since the 1970s through the work of Marshall B. Rosenberg Ph.d, and its approach is perfectly suited to negotiation with others and to resolving inner conflicts. supporting and sustaining the insights of these two processes, we bring over twenty-five years of practice and teaching of mindfulness meditations (among others) – approaches now clincally proven to assist in reducing stress and clarifying internal confusion ( All these approaches can have a dramatic and immediate effect, and radically increase the quality of our lives, both at work and at home.

Suggested Reading:
Gendlin, eugene t. 2007. Focusing, New York, Bantam Books (1st edn 1978, everest House).
Gendlin, eugene t. 1986. Let Your Body Interpret Your Dreams, Wilmette, Illinois: Chiron Publications.
Gendlin, e.t. 1990. ‘The small steps of the therapy process: How they come and how to help them come.’ in G. Lietaer, J. Rombauts & R. van Balen (eds.), Client-centered and experiential psychotherapy in the nineties, pp. 205-224. Leuven: Leuven University Press. from gol_2110.html
Weiser Cornell, Ann, 1996. The Power of Focusing: A Practical Guide to Emotional Self-Healing, Oakland Ca: new Harbinger Publications.
Weiser Cornell, Ann, 2005. The Radical Acceptance of Everything: Living a Focusing Life, Berkerley Ca: Calluna Press.

* All three quotes cited above  are from: Gendlin, eugene t. 2007. Focusing, New York, Bantam Books (1st edn 1978, everest House).

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